Identity

The tears stopped, exhausted but still in pain. Feeling numb, sleeping the days away hoping one day your heart stops breaking. Wishing someone could say the magic word to make it all disappear. You loved so deeply, you don’t understand how they could hurt you. They defaced you with their fists and belittled you with their words. Your identity broken and lost. The countless lies and forgotten promises. Feeling worthless and unwanted. Damaged with no hope in sight. You feel DONE!

You walk away telling yourself “this is the last time they will break me!” You tell yourself “Enough is enough!” Yet they whisper their sweet words and shower you with gifts. Then you think “Maybe this time it will be different, MAYBE they have changed.” ONLY to be told your NOT good enough.

You turn your back for the last time. You know you need to walk away and this time for good. But, you were so invested in loving someone with the dream of them loving you back. It hurts to walk away BUT do you want to live this way forever? Or even if you stay can you guarantee you will live another day?

What is more precious, your life, the life of your children or the love they gave you?

The decision, while obvious, is never easy. You get use to something and it’s so hard to let go. As humans we tend to hold on to what is familiar and change can be hard.

But you’re not alone. You will never be alone. Their is HOPE not only in God but there are people who you have in your life that want to help you. The only thing you have to do is not be afraid anymore and take that step forward.

It is POSSIBLE to have a better life. Love yourself enough to want something better, respect yourself enough to walk away. Find your identity, life is waiting for you to finally LIVE IT!

YOU ARE LOVED, YOU ARE WORTHY AND YOU ARE ENOUGH !♥️💋🌹

*MY INBOX IS OPEN FOR YOU TOO!❤️*

“Spirits are very fragile and easy to break, BUT not impossible to repair.” ~unknown

(Domestic Violence Hotline (800)799-7233)

4 responses to “Identity”

  1. This was such a pleasant read. ❤ There are so many people out there who don’t know how to value themselves just because someone else didn’t value them. And you, so beautifully, expressed their emotions. Loved it. ❤

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    1. Thank you 🙏❤️

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  2. When we begin to see ourselves through the eyes of our creator, we experience self love and acceptance. Love this read!! ❤️❤️

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